Managing Digital Gifts from Well-Meaning Relatives
Leonie Smith Leonie Smith

Managing Digital Gifts from Well-Meaning Relatives

As we approach the season of giving, it's not uncommon for well-meaning family members to present our children with digital, internet-connected devices. While the intention is often rooted in generosity, the potential risks may make parents uneasy. If you find yourself in this situation, here are some tips to navigate and manage when a family member gives your child a digital device that you believe is too risky:

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Talking to Your Kids about Online Safety
Leonie Smith Leonie Smith

Talking to Your Kids about Online Safety

Engaging in open and honest conversations with our children about online safety is crucial in today's interconnected world. It cannot just be a one-time conversation. eSafety can be woven into discussions throughout the years and tailored for different maturities and age groups.

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Setting Boundaries with Love: A Guide to Parenting Teens
Leonie Smith Leonie Smith

Setting Boundaries with Love: A Guide to Parenting Teens

Parenting teenagers can be both rewarding and challenging. As our children transition from childhood to adolescence, it becomes crucial to establish healthy boundaries that guide them while allowing them the space to grow and explore their independence. Striking the right balance between setting rules and fostering a loving, supportive environment is critical to navigating this delicate phase. In this guide, we will delve into the significance of setting boundaries with love and explore practical tips for collaboratively negotiating rules, expectations, and consequences.

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Quality Time vs. Quantity Time: Balancing Both for Stronger Family Relationships
Leonie Smith Leonie Smith

Quality Time vs. Quantity Time: Balancing Both for Stronger Family Relationships

As parents, we often find ourselves caught in balancing our commitments and responsibilities with the desire to connect deeply with our teens and tweens. In a world where time is a precious commodity, the age-old debate between quality and quantity time continues challenging modern families. How can we ensure that the moments we share with our children are abundant and meaningful? In this blog post, we'll explore quality time, dissect how it differs from quantity time, and unveil five practical ways parents can strike the perfect balance for stronger family bonds.

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Mastering the Art of Active Listening to Strengthen the Parent-Teen Bond
Leonie Smith Leonie Smith

Mastering the Art of Active Listening to Strengthen the Parent-Teen Bond

Are you finding that your teens respond mainly with short phrases like "Yeh," "Nah," "Fine," or the occasional "hrumf"? How's the communication flow with your younger ones these days?

Although it can be very frustrating for parents if their teens and younger people seem tuned out or uninterested in communicating, talking and listening are vital to keeping the parent-teen bond strong through a tumultuous time.

In the ever-evolving landscape of parent-teen relationships, the ability to actively listen stands out as a powerful tool for fostering understanding and connection. In this exploration of "The Art of Active Listening," we delve into the significance of this skill in bridging the generation gap. Discover practical tips for parents to enhance their listening skills, creating a space for teens to express themselves. Join us in understanding the positive impact of validating emotions and perspectives, ultimately forging deeper connections within the family.

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A Guide to Strengthening Family Bonds in the Digital Age
Leonie Smith Leonie Smith

A Guide to Strengthening Family Bonds in the Digital Age

Working On Family Digital Challenges Together:

As today's families grapple with unique challenges, technology brings in today's rapidly evolving digital landscape. From concerns about screen time to ensuring online safety, the digital world has become an integral part of our daily lives, impacting family dynamics in unprecedented ways. Recognizing the need for proactive solutions, Digital Family Counselling offers a dedicated space for families to address these challenges collaboratively. Join me on a journey to explore practical strategies for managing screen time, fostering healthy online behaviours, and navigating potential pitfalls as we work together to strengthen the bonds that tie our families. Here are five subjects that I help families with in my counselling practice.

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"How Do I Know If a Video Game Is Safe for My Child?
Leonie Smith Leonie Smith

"How Do I Know If a Video Game Is Safe for My Child?

As a parent or carer, navigating the vast world of video games and ensuring your child engages with age-appropriate content can be challenging. With abundant titles available, it's crucial to understand how to interpret age ratings and make informed decisions. In this blog post, we'll explore how you can assess video games' safety for your 10-year-old, using age ratings and popular examples as guides.

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What to Do When Your Partner Wants Your Child to Have a Phone, and You Don't"
Leonie Smith Leonie Smith

What to Do When Your Partner Wants Your Child to Have a Phone, and You Don't"

In the ever-evolving landscape of parenting in the digital age, the question of when to introduce a mobile phone to your child can be a source of contention among partners. Suppose you find yourself on opposite ends of this spectrum, with your partner advocating for your child to have a phone while you prefer they wait. In that case, navigating this delicate matter with communication, compromise, and shared values is essential.

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"How Do I Restrict Screen Time? 7 Tips for Parents & Carers
Leonie Smith Leonie Smith

"How Do I Restrict Screen Time? 7 Tips for Parents & Carers

In today's digital age, it's no secret that children are spending more time than ever on screens, be it smartphones, tablets, or computers. While technology can offer numerous educational benefits, finding the right balance is crucial. As a parent or carer, supervising and monitoring the world of screens and setting healthy boundaries can be challenging. In this blog post, we'll explore Seven practical tips for parents on restricting screen time using a combination of parental controls and behaviour modification techniques.

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Bonding in Bits and Pixels: The Benefits of Family Gaming
Leonie Smith Leonie Smith

Bonding in Bits and Pixels: The Benefits of Family Gaming

With new technology, a new frontier for family bonding has emerged—digital games. Far from isolating, playing video games as a family has proven to be a powerful way to strengthen the ties that bind us. Let's explore the myriad benefits of computer games and share some delightful, family-friendly games.

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Mobile Phone Monitoring: Striking the Right Balance for Digital Families
Leonie Smith Leonie Smith

Mobile Phone Monitoring: Striking the Right Balance for Digital Families

As our children step into the digital landscape with their mobile phones, it's natural for parents to want to ensure their safety and well-being in the online world. The challenge lies in striking the right balance between monitoring and respecting their autonomy and privacy. Here are some insights on monitoring your child’s/teens' mobile phone use with a balanced approach that evolves with your child's age and maturity.

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Exploring the Digital Sandbox: Comparing Minecraft and Roblox for Kids
Leonie Smith Leonie Smith

Exploring the Digital Sandbox: Comparing Minecraft and Roblox for Kids

As parents, understanding the digital playgrounds our children venture into is crucial. Two popular choices, Minecraft and Roblox, fall under the sandbox games category, offering expansive virtual worlds for creativity and exploration. However, it's essential to be aware of the potential benefits and risks associated with each. Let's delve into the comparison.

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Navigating the Roblox Universe: A Parent's Guide
Leonie Smith Leonie Smith

Navigating the Roblox Universe: A Parent's Guide

Are you the parents of Tweens and Teens? Chances are your child might be exploring Roblox's virtual realms. While Roblox provides kids with an engaging and creative platform, ensuring their safety remains a top priority. Here's a brief guide on Roblox and how to use parental controls embedded within the game settings to enhance your child's safety.

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